Shopping for Tweens

There's no doubt that adolescence is difficult. Teens are becoming more responsible but still need the assurances and affection of parents and loved ones. They're aware enough to know that they're no longer little kids, but they're still intimidated by teenagers. They're starting to develop their own tastes and preferences, but aren't yet old enough to make their own money for shopping.

For those of us with tweens in our lives, shopping for gifts for them can seem an impossible task; hence we must know the bargaining secrets while shopping. The toys they treasured just a year or two ago are now too "babyish" for them, while the gifts on their wish lists are often deemed "too old" by the adults in their lives. Here are some gift ideas that are sure to delight tweens.

Computers and Computer Software

If a tween doesn't have a computer, it won't be long before he or she needs one for schoolwork and socializing. The best time for a parent to set computer ground rules and for a child to develop good computer habits is before he or she hits the teenage years. If a tween already has a computer, new software would be a welcome gift. Graphics programs, photo programs and computer games are always a big hit.

Cell Phones

Getting your own cell phone is a rite of passage among kids today. As long as you set limits on the number of minutes a tween can use each month, giving a cell phone is a sign that you believe the tween is responsible. If he or she already has a cell phone, there is a number of cell phone accessories that he or she would love to have.

Gaming Systems

The chances are good that the tween in your life already has a video gaming system. But, does he or she have the most updated version of the system, like an Xbox 360 or a Wii? If your tween is an avid gamer, he or she will treasure a new gaming system or a great new video game.

Music Players

MP3 players and iPods are one of the most appropriate electronics gifts for tweens. Unlocking the door to the world of music - even if it's music you don't necessarily understand or appreciate - will set the stage for being able to express and reflect the emotional ups and downs that they will soon be experiencing.